Today we are going to address what it takes to "win" during your current life game.
The best way to win is to give up on winning; not in a negative way, but in a positive way. Release the need to be "right," and the need to "win." Live a life of abundance and joy by stepping back from your position of always being "right" about things; the need to "win" every argument or discussion. Does this make you less of a man or woman? No. It puts you in the enviable position of "winning" every time. For instance, your husband is angry at you because the house wasn't clean enough when he got home from work. You can take his attitude and words personally, become defensive, and get into an enormous argument. Then there enters the negative emotion of anger and even a little hate for your husband's position. Both of your blood pressures rise, your bodies face a load of stress, and you crawl into bed that night angry at each other. You may never get over the stress of that argument and it will impact your relationship.
However, say that instead of taking things personally and becoming mad at your husband for his ill-advised opinions, you say to yourself, "Hum, i guess I hadn't realized that things have been slipping for a while," and then you smile at your husband and tell him that things will improve and thanks for the input. You win. There is no stressful fight and arguing in your home, no one determined to "prove their point," no physical and emotional disruption and your husband feels happy because he feels that he has been heard and understood. He then makes an extra effort to help you out at home or with the children that night. Wise woman has won this round, for peace reigns in her home that evening.
Wanting anything pushes it away, but release your need for any thing and, if it is positive, it will be attracted to you. Many people go to Casinos or the horse races needing to win, or wanting to win really badly. Their future is almost assured to be losing everything they came in with and everything they later take out of the ATM machines. Chase the wins and they will move forever away from you.
A good example of this principle is playing the slot machines. They are so much fun but you can go through a large amount of money in a very short time. Our mind tricks us that the next spin will be the big win and so unless we use great self awareness we end up spending all of our available money. We have been chasing a win and any time that you get caught up in this round you will lose money. However, go to a Casino one day when you have all of your needs met, are just going to have fun, can afford to lose an amount of money, and bamo kazamo, you end up winning money.
Letting go of your need to "win" or to be "right" all of the time, places you in a position to win at every hand. Let the other person "win" and be "right" and see the power it gives you to turn your life into a positive statement by attracting to you everything positive in life; such as love, money, and creativity.
Have a wonderful weekend and may all that you attempt be successful, and all that you attract be positive.
The best way to win is to give up on winning; not in a negative way, but in a positive way. Release the need to be "right," and the need to "win." Live a life of abundance and joy by stepping back from your position of always being "right" about things; the need to "win" every argument or discussion. Does this make you less of a man or woman? No. It puts you in the enviable position of "winning" every time. For instance, your husband is angry at you because the house wasn't clean enough when he got home from work. You can take his attitude and words personally, become defensive, and get into an enormous argument. Then there enters the negative emotion of anger and even a little hate for your husband's position. Both of your blood pressures rise, your bodies face a load of stress, and you crawl into bed that night angry at each other. You may never get over the stress of that argument and it will impact your relationship.
However, say that instead of taking things personally and becoming mad at your husband for his ill-advised opinions, you say to yourself, "Hum, i guess I hadn't realized that things have been slipping for a while," and then you smile at your husband and tell him that things will improve and thanks for the input. You win. There is no stressful fight and arguing in your home, no one determined to "prove their point," no physical and emotional disruption and your husband feels happy because he feels that he has been heard and understood. He then makes an extra effort to help you out at home or with the children that night. Wise woman has won this round, for peace reigns in her home that evening.
Wanting anything pushes it away, but release your need for any thing and, if it is positive, it will be attracted to you. Many people go to Casinos or the horse races needing to win, or wanting to win really badly. Their future is almost assured to be losing everything they came in with and everything they later take out of the ATM machines. Chase the wins and they will move forever away from you.
A good example of this principle is playing the slot machines. They are so much fun but you can go through a large amount of money in a very short time. Our mind tricks us that the next spin will be the big win and so unless we use great self awareness we end up spending all of our available money. We have been chasing a win and any time that you get caught up in this round you will lose money. However, go to a Casino one day when you have all of your needs met, are just going to have fun, can afford to lose an amount of money, and bamo kazamo, you end up winning money.
Letting go of your need to "win" or to be "right" all of the time, places you in a position to win at every hand. Let the other person "win" and be "right" and see the power it gives you to turn your life into a positive statement by attracting to you everything positive in life; such as love, money, and creativity.
Have a wonderful weekend and may all that you attempt be successful, and all that you attract be positive.
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